Can
You Feel the Love Tonight was playing softly in the background as the first fist
made contact with my face. I’m quite sure the irony was lost on my attacker,
yet it stuck out oddly in my mind. I half wanted to yell out “STOP!” just so I
could change the song to something more appropriate, but I knew my attacker
would just think I was begging to end the beating. As the hits continued to
rain down, I had trouble believing Elton as he sang that love can make kings
and vagabonds believe the very best.
I’m
not going to bore you with the minute details of the attack, or titillate with
the gory details: I got attacked, ironic music was playing, I woke up three
days later in the local hospital.
The
police arrived an hour or so after I woke up to ask me questions about the
attack.
They
left disappointed—apparently my thoughts on Elton John were not crucial to the
case. I hadn’t got a good look at my attacker; I was too busy getting punched
in the face to see clearly.
They
kept calling it an assault, maybe it was, but it felt different. There wasn’t
rage behind my attacker. The few times they spoke, it sounded like they were
been driven by something more primal: hate. The police didn’t care about my
thoughts on that, they just wanted a description, and left as soon as they
realized I couldn’t give them one.
I
was kept for observation for the night, and released the next morning. On my
way out, the staff all just smiled sadly as I passed, like I had been through
some unfortunate accident. They pitied me. I didn’t that, I didn’t want
anything from them!
I
got back to my apartment to find my girlfriend sitting on our couch, stroking
our cat. Her name was Lacey, and the cat was Murphey.
“They
didn’t tell me they were letting you go today,” Lacey said as she got off the
couch and rushed over to me.
She
threw her arms around me, and I responded muffled into her shoulder, “They didn’t
tell me until an hour ago.”
Lacey
lightly kissed me on the lips before pulling back and gently tracing the
bruising on my face. “My poor baby, did they find who did this to you?”
I
walked into the kitchen and poured myself a glass of water before responding, “No,
I wasn’t much help either. I never saw their face, and the police didn’t care
about what my attacked said.”
“Your
attacker talked to you? Did they want something?”
I
took a sip of water; the cold felt good traveling down my throat. “They just
called me a fucking—it doesn’t matter. They said a bunch of stuff. Called me
names, then just started punching me.”
“Sam,”
Lacey began with clear worry in her voice, “did they know you?”
I
paused, my glass halfway between my mouth and the counter. “It doesn’t matter
Lace. They could’ve heard someone else say my name earlier in the night, could’ve
been a deranged stalker. I told you, the cops didn’t care about what they said.”
I put my glass down, “Can we talk about something else, please? I just. I--” I
broke down. Tears burned as they rolled down my bruised, scratched, and swollen
cheeks.
Somehow
I ended up on the floor with Lacey’s arms wrapped around me. She wasn’t saying
anything, she was just stroking my hair as I cried. Murphey was there too,
gently liking the tears off my face.
“They
knew my name,” I choked out through the tears. “They kept saying it over and
over again as they beat me. ‘Sam the dyke fucker’, ‘Sam the fag’.” I started
hyperventilating, and needed a moment to calm my breathing. “They were trying
to fix me. ‘Teach you for being a fucking dyke.’ Why, why did this happen? Why
would someone we know do this to me?” I began to repeat “why” over and over as
the sobs came back.
Some
hours later, we were on the couch. Lacey had wrapped me up in my favourite
blanket, and something mindless was on television. “Lace, I was attacked by a
woman.”
Lacey
opened her mouth to respond, but I cut her off: “I want to go to church
tomorrow.”
One
of my ex’s had converted while we had been dating. That was why we broke up.
She couldn’t bear to continue, as she put it, sinning with me. We still talk
occasionally, the break up wasn’t rough or mean-spirited, and I thought maybe
she could offer some words of support.
Walking
into that building with Lacey on my arm was nerve wracking. This was an old
church, a conservative church, and I walked into with my girlfriend who lived
with me. Vanessa, my ex, saw us walk in and hurried over to us, smiling at
everyone she passed.
“Hello,”
I began to say before getting cut off. “Sam, what the hell are you doing here?
You know you can’t just show up here with,“ she sneered at Lacey, “her on your arm. Get out.”
I
sputtered, tried to speak, but nothing was coming out. Lacey tugged on my arm, “Come
on Sam, let’s just get out of here.”
In
a stupor, Lacey led me away from the church and to the nearest bus stop. We
sat, Lacey’s arms dropped around my shoulder, and waited for the bus.
“Lace,
I think it was Vanessa that attacked me. The hate in her voice today. It
sounded just like my attacker. And she didn’t ask what happened to my face.” I
started crying again.
The
next day I called the police and told them my suspicions, they promised to look
into it. Vanessa was never even brought in. Apparently they called her, asked a
couple questions, and that was it. Once they found out she was straight and
Christian, they let the matter drop.
Every
time I hear Can You Feel the Love Tonight, all I can feel is her fists hitting
my face.
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